Humanity lives today in a “global
village,” where no people or nation can live in isolation from and indifferent
to what goes on elsewhere. Our world is so interdependent and so interrelated
that peaceful dialogue has become an imperative. In spite of the general
erosion of commitment to “religion,” however interpreted or misinterpreted,
religion still plays a pivotal role in shaping people’s attitudes and
influencing their behaviour.
حَدَّثَنَا
هَنَّادٌ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو الأَحْوَصِ، عَنْ أَبِي إِسْحَاقَ، عَنِ الْحَارِثِ،
عَنْ عَلِيٍّ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم " لِلْمُسْلِمِ عَلَى الْمُسْلِمِ
سِتٌّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ يُسَلِّمُ عَلَيْهِ إِذَا لَقِيَهُ وَيُجِيبُهُ إِذَا
دَعَاهُ وَيُشَمِّتُهُ إِذَا عَطَسَ وَيَعُودُهُ إِذَا مَرِضَ وَيَتْبَعُ
جَنَازَتَهُ إِذَا مَاتَ وَيُحِبُّ لَهُ مَا يُحِبُّ لِنَفْسِهِ " . وَفِي الْبَابِ عَنْ أَبِي
هُرَيْرَةَ وَأَبِي أَيُّوبَ وَالْبَرَاءِ وَأَبِي مَسْعُودٍ . قَالَ أَبُو
عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ وَقَدْ رُوِيَ مِنْ غَيْرِ وَجْهٍ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ
صلى الله عليه وسلم . وَقَدْ تَكَلَّمَ بَعْضُهُمْ فِي الْحَارِثِ الأَعْوَرِ
Narrated 'Ali:
that the
Messenger of Allah said: "There are six courtesies due from a Muslim to
another Muslim: To give Salam to him when he meets him, to accept his
invitation when he invites him, to reply to him when he sneezes, to visit him
when he is ill, to follow his funeral when he dies, and to love for him what he
loves for himself."
1.
Having good social interaction.
Many people find it hard to open their
hearts and share their feelings and problems. However, social interaction where
people can talk out their problems and feel accepted and understood. When others
speak kindly to you, encourages you, gives you an unexpected and genuine
compliment, or tells you that he or she cares about you made you feel
appreciated.
حَدَّثَنَا عُثْمَانُ، وَأَبُو بَكْرٍ ابْنَا أَبِي شَيْبَةَ
قَالاَ حَدَّثَنَا وَكِيعٌ، عَنْ سُفْيَانَ، عَنْ أُسَامَةَ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ
عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، رَحِمَهَا اللَّهُ قَالَتْ كَانَ كَلاَمُ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ
صلى الله عليه وسلم كَلاَمًا فَصْلاً يَفْهَمُهُ كُلُّ مَنْ سَمِعَهُ .
Narrated
Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin:
The
Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) spoke in a distinct
manner so that anyone who listened to him could understand it.
2. Respecting
others religion, opinion and culture.
Allah (SWT) says:
﴿لَا يَنْهَاكُمُ اللَّهُ عَنِ الَّذِينَ لَمْ
يُقَاتِلُوكُمْ فِي الدِّينِ وَلَمْ يُخْرِجُوكُم مِّن دِيَارِكُمْ أَن
تَبَرُّوهُمْ وَتُقْسِطُوا إِلَيْهِمْ إِنَّ اللَّهَ يُحِبُّ الْمُقْسِطِينَ *
إِنَّمَا يَنْهَاكُمُ اللَّهُ عَنِ الَّذِينَ قَاتَلُوكُمْ فِي الدِّينِ
وَأَخْرَجُوكُم مِّن دِيَارِكُمْ وَظَاهَرُوا عَلَى إِخْرَاجِكُمْ أَن
تَوَلَّوْهُمْ وَمَن يَتَوَلَّهُمْ فَأُوْلَئِكَ هُمُ الظَّالِمُونَ﴾
(الممتحنة: 8-9)
“Allah
does not forbid you from those who do not fight you because of religion and do
not expel you from your homes - from being righteous toward them and acting
justly toward them. Indeed, Allah loves those who act justly. Allah only
forbids you from those who fight you because of religion and expel you from
your homes and aid in your expulsion - [forbids] that you make allies of them.
And whoever makes allies of them, then it is those who are the wrongdoers.”
(Al-Mumtaĥanah: 8-9)
3. Be kind
Relatives have specific rights entitling
them to special attention, visits and support. A wealthier Muslim is obliged to
assist his or her relatives, with priority given to the nearest in kin, and
then in order of nearness in relationship. A Muslim supports his brothers and relatives
in times of need and shares their concerns. Islam encourages a Muslim to be
kind to his relatives even when they are unkind to him, and asks him to
continue his relations even when they cut them off.
حَدَّثَنِي
عُبَيْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ عُمَرَ الْقَوَارِيرِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ بْنُ
زُرَيْعٍ، عَنْ عُمَرَ بْنِ مُحَمَّدٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، قَالَ سَمِعْتُ ابْنَ
عُمَرَ، يَقُولُ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم " مَا زَالَ جِبْرِيلُ يُوصِينِي
بِالْجَارِ حَتَّى ظَنَنْتُ أَنَّهُ سَيُوَرِّثُهُ " .
Ibn
Umar reported Allah's Messenger as saying:
Gabriel
impressed upon me (the kind treatment) towards the neighbour (so much) that I
thought as if he would soon confer upon him the (right) of inheritance.
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